you know how a dilemma goes. you're pulled in two directions, and you cant seem to decide which way to go. so usually, how do you get yourself out of a dilemma? one way is usually safe, and the other fraught with uncertainty. the safeness of a choice lulls you into a position of comfort, and hidden pains of 'what ifs'. but i suppose, the reason why people choose the other is cos the possibility of success outweighs what is at stake. somehow i dont think i have the courage to choose the latter.